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Couples Therapy in Denver

Life is constantly changing, as are people. Even the healthiest of relationships require work, commitment, and effort. Marriage counselling and couples therapy is beneficial for all levels of relationships. Whether you need marriage counselling or couples therapy, Julie Gladnick, in Denver CO can help you and your partner use therapy.

Some of the issues I address in couples counseling include:

  • trust and jealousy issues
  • infidelity
  • lack of intimacy
  • parenting issues
  • body image
  • depression and anxiety
  • abuse in past relationships (sexual, physical and/or emotional)
  • general stagnation or complacency in relationship

Because we spend so much time with one person, it can be very helpful to have a compassionate yet neutral third-party help guide you through issues that may find you stuck.

Relationships sometimes go through growing pains; when life transitions happen, we often need to reevaluate our roles and rules within our partnerships.

I have worked with couples navigating their relationship after the addition of a child, working on communicating after becoming complacent and taking each other for granted and struggling to decide whether to go on as a team or go their separate ways.

I also work with a number of individuals who are needing support in creating healthy boundaries in their relationships and deciding whether to stay with their current partner, move on, or heal from a relationship or marriage that is ending or has ended.

Marriage Counseling

Many of the work I have done with the couples that I see is work that I have done in my own marriage. Marriages take an incredible amount of work. We often take for granted the person closest to us, and end up taking out most, if not all of our anxieties and stresses on them. It can be overwhelmingly difficult to feel like you are being heard in a relationship where it seems you are having the same argument over and over again. I can help work with you to identify the cycle in which you may be stuck, help you break it, and help you finally be able to listen to one another and feel the love and compassion that you likely felt at the beginning of your relationship.

My hope when working with couples is to help you in as little time as possible. I ideally hope that you will feel confident on your own within 3-6 months of working together, maybe more, maybe less. Many of the couples I have seen come in for tune-ups when they hit a bump in the road or have fallen back into their own cycles, as well.

I have been trained with a background that is guided by the theories and therapies of 2 leading clinicians in couples therapy: John Gottman and Sue Johnson (Gottman Therapy and Emotional Focused Therapy, respectively) I am constantly updating my education and experience through trainings and studies, and hope to be able to share some of my skill and knowledge with you. This fall (Sept '16) I will be continuing my education via trainings around Pragmatic/Experiential Therapy for Couples (PET-C), as well.

As a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, I am trained to help support you in whatever goals you may have both as a couple and as individuals. Please contact me for an initial phone consultation to determine if and how I may help you.

Frequently Asked Questions

One glaring area of need when it comes to relationships is lack of intimacy. Though it is quite common, feeling unsatisfied with your sex life is not something that bodes well on a relationship. 

I often work with couples, some married and some not, that are seeking therapy to help them both feel more connected and understood. Very frequently, that includes an unsatisfactory level of intimacy for one or both partners. There are so many factors that go into having a healthy sex life, and my hope is that, in working together, I can help provide a safe place to explore such contributors.

Through both education and supportive and nonjudgemental therapy, we will work together to identify deeper held feelings, beliefs, attitudes and individual needs in both your physical and emotional relationship with your partner. While lack of intimacy is often a frontrunner in partner complaints, it is not always the only factor. Many times, one or both partners is feeling overwhelmed, stressed, tired/fatigued, hormonally off-balance and generally disconnected. Our work together will help to identify some of these underlying causes, as well as how to help feel more connected, or reconnected, on an emotional level.

A lot of the work we will do will also include how to identify what it is you are needing, and even further, how to communicate with your partner in a healthier way that helps him or her understand your needs and how to best support you.

The bottom line is, you are not alone. Lack or loss of intimacy is a common grievance among couples, and I hope to be able to help!

I remember when my husband and I went to a couples therapist many years ago before we were married. Being a therapist, I had a good understanding of what types of things we would address, although my husband was a bit more skeptical. Premarital counseling was a really great way for us to not-only focus on the issues we were already having, but brought to light some issues we had not already though of, even though we had been together quite a long time already.

When working with couples contemplating getting married, or preparing for marriage, we can have a lot of different goals. Some couples are really just needing help with setting familial boundaries, especially with regards to wedding planning. Others are feeling anxiety about some of the pre-existing challenges in their relationship. Another couple may feel like they have a strong relationship, and just need support in continuing to lay a healthy foundation for their marriage and for years down the road.

Once in session, we will initially talk about relationship history and goals for therapy. Depending on whether you are looking to strengthen an already healthy relationship or want/need to address some anxieties one or both of you are having about your plans for a more serious commitment to one another, we will work together to determine best goals and our plan for getting there.

Frequently, whether your relationship feels incredibly healthy or incredibly challenging, most couples, if not all, tend to have areas where their communication can be strengthened and improved. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I am trained in systemic therapy and have training experience with both Gottman and Emotionally Focused Therapies. What that means is that I will help you not only identify some cycles where you may be getting stuck, but will also help you to more deeply identify what it is you might be needing from your partner, and how to get your needs met in a way that feels healthier for both of you.

Ultimately, premarital counseling is an incredibly healthy way to give you and your partner tools for communicating in a more effective way, as well as identifying shared and individual expectations, goals and dreams for your future together.

 

 

This is a very common question and I'm glad you are both interested in seeking some support in guiding your relationship together.  Couples' therapy can often be a scary thing when it doesn't have to be.  I work to help support both of you in a neutral way, intending to improve communication and understanding for one another. 

I've worked with many couples who were simply looking to improve communication for a stronger relationship, as well as couples trying to determine if they can stay together or not.  You are both in charge of the goals you have for therapy, and I am here to help facilitate those goals in as neutral and supportive way as possible.

Please feel free to set up an initial phone consultation to ask any additional questions or determine if I may be a good fit for you.

Meet Julie:

Julie Gladnick MA, LMFT

Professional Background

I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Colorado (MFT #998).  Originally from the East Coast, I earned my MA in Counseling Psychology from John F. Kennedy University in Berkeley, CA and then earned my license in Marriage and Family Therapy in California (MFT #50279) before moving to Colorado during the Summer of 2011.

I am a current member of the following organizations:

  • American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists, Clinical Member (AAMFT)
  • Colorado Association for Marriage and Family Therapists, Clinical Member (CAMFT)

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